Writer + Visual Storyteller + Minister
I’m transparent about what influences my personal style, and some of my writings discuss my personal experiences with trauma. I share because I deeply believe self-worship via adornment saves my life daily. I hope my words encourage you to think differently about your own relationship with yourself and your approach to getting dressed.
Personal style is energetic expression Energy in feelings, experiences, and life aspirations projecting outward that determines aesthetics. It’s in the tone of voice, stride in walk, and position of hands when speaking.Whereas the fashion industry will have you to believe that one can dress an energy that they do not embody and call it personal…
The Rebirth of Self Rising out of the uterus and moving up to the heart, past griefs. It’s named depression. Forgetfulness, brain fog, and fatigue are accepted in lieu of rest. Shifting emotions criticized instead of boundaries respected. Sweat-drenched sheets, insomnia, bizarre dreams, dry pussy, heavy breasts, aching hips, new pains…HRT, not Valarian root, Black…
Reaffirming my personal style got me through the death of my child, divorce, and out of an abusive relationship. I would wake up, open my closet doors, sit on the ground, and look up at the hems of my sweaters, skirts, dresses, and jackets. And cry. Silent, heavy heaves. Watering the carpet/wood/tile. Praying for joy.…
Jana Coke 